Tom "Gooter" Straw

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March 10, 1949 ~ August 22, 2024

Born in: New Hampton, IA
Resided in: Nashua, IA

Tom “Gooter” Straw age 75 of Nashua, IA formerly of New Hampton, IA died Thursday, August 22, 2024, at Floyd County Medical Center in Charles City, IA.

A Memorial Service will be held at 11:30 a.m. Wednesday, August 28, 2024, at Hugeback – Johnson Funeral Home & Crematory in New Hampton with Rev. James Goerend officiating.

Friends may greet the family from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m. Tuesday, August 27, 2024, at Hugeback – Johnson Funeral Home & Crematory in New Hampton. Visitation continues an hour prior to the Memorial Service at the funeral home on Wednesday.

Tom Straw, known by friends and family as “Gooter,” was a man whose laughter was as infectious as his personality was vibrant. Born on the 10th of March, 1949, in New Hampton, Iowa, the son of Orville and Wilma (Weidler) Straw. Tom’s journey through life was one filled with joy, service, and a touch of mischief. He left this world on the 22nd of August, 2024, in Charles City, Iowa, leaving behind a legacy of laughter and love.

Tom’s early years in New Hampton were marked by a mix of education and budding romance. After graduating from New Hampton High School in 1967, he traded his textbooks for dog tags, serving his country with honor in the United States Army from 1968 to 1970. It was during his school years that he caught the eye of Connie Schwickerath, and the two would go on to tie the knot on April 22, 1972, at St. Joseph Catholic Church. Their marriage was a beautiful partnership that brought forth three sons: Brian, Mitch, and Tony, who were the pride and joy of Tom’s life.

Professionally, Tom was a man of many talents. He began his career in the telephone industry with United Telephone Company, where he honed his skills and cultivated lasting relationships. Not one to shy away from a challenge, he embraced his entrepreneurial spirit and launched his own telephone business, becoming the go-to guy for subcontracting work, even for the likes of John Deere. Before hanging up his hat, he concluded his career at Tri-Mark in New Hampton, leaving behind a trail of success and a network of colleagues who admired his work ethic and his ability to tell a joke in the same breath.

Tom’s interests were as eclectic as his sense of humor. He was known for his love of his favorite cocktail, UV Red and Faygo Cola, paired with a good smoke, often serving as the life of the party. His passion for the outdoors was undeniable; he could often be found with a golf club or fishing rod in hand, and he wouldn’t pass up the chance for a hunting adventure. Yearly fishing trips to Canada with the boys were a sacred tradition, and if he could sneak in a bear hunt, all the better.

Traveling was another of Tom’s pleasures, an interest he shared with his beloved Connie. Together, they explored the world, from the rolling hills of Ireland to the sunny beaches of Jamaica and the tropical paradise of Hawaii. But it wasn’t just the destinations that mattered to Tom; it was the journey. Gooter’s favorite open road trips often involved road hunting for any fair game. Pheasants, rabbits, deer, asparagus, and even mushrooms. His friends often joked they were going to mount a pickup door on his deer stand so he would feel more at home. 

Tom’s quick wit and great sense of humor were his trademarks. Described as both funny and interesting, he never missed an opportunity to crack a joke or share a funny anecdote. His laughter was a melody that will echo in the hearts of those who knew him forever.

Above all his outdoor hobbies, high school wrestling was his passion. He always had a positive comment for any wrestler that would listen. Gooter followed many girl wrestlers along with the boys. Having wrestled Dan Gable, he felt his experience was worth sharing. Wrestling Fan of the Year in 2018-19 was one of Tom’s proudest moments. He was a true blue wrestling fan, not just limited to Iowa, UNI and New Hampton -Turkey Valley, and Nashua but to any person that put on a singlet and stepped on a mat. Gooter especially followed any team with a wrestler with a New Hampton tie, which is pretty much all of Iowa (and a little Minnesota). He often could be heard from the stands yelling, “there ain’t no basement in here!” As Gooter offered his view to the refs. 

Tom is survived by his wife, Connie Straw of Nashua, IA; three sons, Brian (Stacey Finnegan) Straw of Charles City, IA, Mitch (Julie Buhmeyer) Straw of Cedar Rapids, IA; Tony (Megan Allen) Straw of Waterloo, IA; four grandchildren, Avery (Caleb Vesely) Straw, and Lakin Straw, and Harrison and Franike Holmes; and one brother, Larry Straw of New Hampton, IA; two sisters-in-law, Karla (Sam) Hilt, and Karen Schwickerath; nieces, Tammy (Joe Brown) Straw, Tracy (Kevin Hodges) Straw, Stephanie (Gary) Maske, Christine Straw; great-nephew, Carter Maske.

He was preceded in death by his parents; brother Bill, in-laws, Richard & Darlene Schwickerath; sister-in-law Ruth Straw; sister-in-law, Lois Straw. 

In Lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Purple Heart Tour 11536 Spring Ave Clarksville, IA 50619, and Chickasaw  Elite Wrestling Club PO Box 150 New Hampton, IA 50659.  

 

 

 

Services

Service: August 28, 2024 11:30 am - 12:00 pm

Hugeback-Johnson Funeral Home - New Hampton
101 West Main Street
New Hampton, IA 50659

(641) 394-4334
http://www.hugebackfuneralhome.com/

Visitation: August 27, 2024 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Hugeback-Johnson Funeral Home - New Hampton
101 West Main Street
New Hampton, IA 50659

(641) 394-4334
http://www.hugebackfuneralhome.com/

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  1. My deepest sympathies are with you Connie and all your family. He was a fun guy and certainly will be missed. Sending prayers and hugs 🙏🙏

  2. Oh Connie, so sorry to hear about Tom, he can finally drink what he wants and as much as he wants.
    Talked with him at clinic last month, he said he was having heart issues.
    R.I.P Tom
    Thoughts and hugs coming your way.
    Randy & Mary Jane Leach

  3. My sympathy! Wrap ALL the good memories around your heart. Sending prayers for STRENGTH for you Connie & your entire family in the days ahead 🙏
    Betty Haugen

  4. Very sorry for your loss! You ALL have my sympathy. Everybody who knew him or didn’t know him will sure miss visiting with Gooter! May he Rest in Peace. Will pray for you all.

  5. Very sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. A gentleman with razor wit and a roguish glint in his eyes. Only met him a few times with the Mishaks but enough to leave a lasting impression. My love to Connie & Brian and all the family from Meg & I. 💔

  6. My deepest sympathy to Tom’s family. Find peace in the love of Jesus during this time of grief.

  7. I am so grateful to have experienced true friendship with this one-of-a-kind person. Much love and sympathy for Connie and boys. Thanks for sharing him with the world. Oh, how I would love to be the lucky fly on the wall when all the reminiscing starts to flow.

    • Sympathy to you , Connie and your family. Keep all your memories of many fun times close to your heart. What a fun loving guy❤️

    • Connie and the boys, you have, my deepest sympathy. Tom and I go back a Long ways. I worked at the electric utility co. Tom back then worked at the telephone Co.
      I hired Tommy way back to help me replace lights at the baseball diamond. that was his first time on a 75 or 80 foot pole he was a little apprehensive to start with, but worked out great.. We also did a little pheasant hunting back in the day. May you rest in peace Tommy

  8. We graduated together in 1967. Gooter, Bob Roberson and I went to the prom together and had our pictures taken as prom dates😀. He wrestled State and National champion, Dan Gabel and he said to me “they knew I was wrestling because they put up the TV cameras to record our match”! My sympathy to Connie and boys.

  9. It has been a long time since we last saw Tom but we sure had a lot of fun when we lived in New Hampton. Whenever we were able to meet up, it was just like we had not been gone. He was always ready with a plan for anything & everything that might be fun. Sorry to hear of his passing. Take Care. Turk

  10. We have no words to express our sympathy and heart aches fie the Straw boys and Connie. My classmate, our neighbor and our friend for so many years. And way to much fun together. Some fun times we can share, and some stories of the legendary Gooter. Memories to live on forever in our hearts.

  11. Hi Connie don’t know if you remember me but I just want to tell you how sorry Marlys and I are for your loss Tom was a good friend. We just found each other on face book and we just want to say how deeply sorry we are.

  12. Connie and family,
    We would like to extend our sincere condolences. He will surely be missed by many and hope you find comfort in all the memories.

  13. Ohhhh Connie, Brian,Mitch,Tony so many hugs n prayers. We have many fond memories. I hated Tom at first for taking Connie away from Rochester then we loved him for being Tom the Super wrestler, golfer, story teller, chicken fryer… The list goes on! No end to his talents and smile. You’re in all our thoughts. Virtual tight hugs!

  14. Connie and family,
    My heart is broken! I broke down and cried when I heard the news. Tom, Gooter was my little brother! We talked often and he always shared wrestling stories as he was a true fan. Don’t think he ever missed a state tournament! Growing up we hunted and fished together with brother Bill. His heart was full of love for his family and friends. I will truly miss my little brother! Prayers to all his family for peace and comfort!

  15. On behalf of the Class of 1969 and Bill (honorary classmate), I send our sympathy and love to you, Connie, and your family. He was quite the Gooter who lived life with Gusto❣️.

  16. Connie and all Gooter’s family and friends, Al and I send our prayers and thoughts. We are going to miss seeing him at the cabin and his love for life.

  17. Can’t find the right words to tell all of you how sorry we are. We have so many great memories with Gooter. He will never be forgotten by all of us that loved him. Fly high dear friend. RIP😢💔

  18. Connie, I was so surprised And saddened to hear this. It’s a very difficult time. Be in God’s arms and His tender caring and love. Be assured so many people love you. Joan

  19. Our sincere sympathy to you Connie and your family. May he rest in peace.
    Donn and Louise Harris

  20. I had the privilege of working with Tom many years in Waterloo. He made coming to work a joy. He was one of a kind and will be missed by many. My sincere condolences.

  21. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time. Tom is in great company in heaven. His legacy will live on forever ✨️
    Our condolences,
    Margo, Jim, Spencer and Irelynn Bodensteiner

  22. Our sympathy goes out to all the Straw family. Tom was such a character, but I think it kind of runs in the family. So sorry we will be unable to attend Tom’s services, we will be thinking of and honoring him. RIP tom.

  23. Connie, such a difficult tme in life. Hang on tight to all the good memories. Let your family & friends help you

  24. Connie & all of the Straws, I am so sorry for our loss. He was a great guy & I treasure our friendship…and good times!
    May he rest in peace! May God bless him and all of you!

  25. Sending our sympathies and condolences to Connie and the Straw family.

    Glen, Laura, and Jenny Schwickerath

  26. Tom was a good guy with a big heart and a great laugh. He was always a joy to be around. Prayers for you Connie and the boys. He will be missed.

  27. Connie, Brian, Mitch, Tony, and family-
    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Tom was a unique and special person who made a lasting impact on so many lives. May the beautiful memories you shared bring you comfort and peace.

  28. Connie and family: We extend our deepest sympathy to and pray for God to bless you with peace at this time.

  29. Connie & Boys
    This is truly a sad time for us as we have so many fond memories of Gooter. He was so special and was a friend to whomever he crossed paths with. May the Lord hold you in his arms and give you peace. God bless you all.
    Gary & Terry

  30. My condolences to all of Straw family and close friends..it will definitely be different attending a NH wrestling meet and not seeing him or hearing his voice complement the officials..RIP Gooter..tell Bill hey from all of us down here

  31. I remember Tom ever since grade school.
    He was quite a guy.
    He is a friend ALL will remember.
    Kathy regales me with humorous stories of their “goings on”.
    His mom and dad and families are wonderful.
    Love to all,
    John and Kathy Hassman

  32. Our hearts are so saddened to hear about Tom. He was a great guy and could always make Testroet smile and laugh. He really touched the hearts of many and will certainly be missed. We are thinking of you in thoughts and prayers Connie & family. Hugs to you all. Dan & Peg Testroet

  33. Connie, Brian, Mitch, Tony, and families,
    You have our deepest sympathy for your loss! We have great memories of Gooter especially during the years our sons were wrestling! He was always sharing a positive comment on their match or complained loudly when he felt the refs had awarded the points incorrectly. Also during the years golfing at NHGC, there were always plenty of laughs! He had a great sense of humor. May God grant you peace and comfort during this time!

  34. To the Straw family, I’m so sorry for your loss. He was loved by many. Forever remembered, forever missed.

  35. Connie and family, I am sorry you have to feel the loss of Gooter. I hadn’t seen him for years until my class reunion in 2019. He still had that boyish grin on his face and such a friendly man. You were lucky to have him for so many years. My thoughts are with you.

  36. I was surprised and saddened by the news of Tom’ passing. I graduated with Tom in the class of ‘67 and what a great, friendly person to be around. My deepest sympathy to all the Family.

  37. Everyone wanted to be Tom’s friend, and Tom was a friend to everyone. I’m sure Tom prepared his family for this day and now that day is here. I’m sure Tom will be proud that his family will practice the life lessons that he lived.

    My sympathy.

    Mike Hruska

  38. Connie,Brian,Mitch and Tony, so sorry to hear of Gooter’s passing. It was always entertaining BSing with him. We will all miss him. Sending prayers your way!

  39. Our prayers are with you throughout this difficult time! Gooter was a great friend and hearing of his passing was sad news indeed. He will be remembered with smiles on our faces.

  40. My sympathies to all of Tom’s family and Larry. Always enjoyed talking to Tom and seeing him many mornings on his way to Deere as I was going to work in Waterloo.
    Ron Roberson

  41. My sympathy to Connie, Brian, Mitch and Tony. So fortunate to have had Gooter in my corner as a wrestler, he always knew what to say and when to say it, many times when coaches and parents didn’t recognize the need. What a great guy who will surely be missed!

  42. Tom was one of a kind, made others feel so loved and like his own. My heart aches for all of you! He will be terribly missed but the Gooter stories will be told forever around the table! Hugs!

  43. Connie & family, we are so sad to hear of Tom’s passing and have so many great memories of him. The obituary truly captured Tom’s great love and joy throughout his life and you were a vital part of it. We were blessed to have experienced it as well. Our hearts and prayers are with you now and in the days ahead. May you have comfort and peace as the Lord wraps his arms around you. With our deepest sympathy, Don & Judy (Steenblock) Jenn

  44. Connie and family, I was deeply saddened when I heard of Tom’s passing. I have early memories of staying at the Volker farm and wrestling and playing with Tom and Monty – with Dennis riding herd on us. I will forever remember how gracious he was (long story – the car incident) and has been every time I ran into him when we visited New Hampton. He was one of the nicest people I have known and just wish I had spent more time with him and your family. Deepest sympathies, Dale, Judy and family.

  45. Connie, Sending deep sympathies for your great loss. I am grateful I was able to meet Tom for a brief moment. After reading all the comments, I can see how he brought such a light to everyone who knew him. Take comfort in knowing this is not a Permanent Goodbye, but rather I’ll see you again. Sending prayers for you and your Family.

    Peggy Saar

  46. I want to extend my deep sympathies to you Connie, to Larry, the entire Straw family. I was saddened to hear Goot had died. But at the same time I am reminded of a fun, fun weekend Sandy and I had with you two, Tom and Elaine, and Joe and Marilyn. Smile and high when you are able. Goot was a terrific guy. I’m sure Bill gave Goot a huge welcome “Home.”

  47. Dear Connie, we just learned last night that your beloved Tom has left this life for an eternal life. May our Dear Lord hold him in his arms of everlasting love.


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